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An Auspicious Beginning

My Ford Econoline shut down because the gyros sensed a rollover in progress – in my driveway – and I’m sure Ford will be happy to let me pay them to fix it.

On top of that I have water damage in my kitchen which can’t be fixed until a plumber replaces the broken shutoff valve under my sink (the valve is broken so that we can’t turn off the water – it is not the source of the leak) but there are no plumbers who can come before tomorrow as far as we have been able to find.

This has been an auspicious beginning to 2013 – it can only get better from here.

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Unpack Your Bags

Photo by Alistair Ross

There is something that inherently resonates with people in the idea of maximizing individual potential. I’m thinking of this for myself but as I begin to write I realize that this is a very opportune time to address this idea in the midst of the Olympics which, in its essence is a worldwide public display of athletes attempting to do exactly that in their various sporting endeavors.

I like the image of the Olympic torch to symbolize this because I am not referring to athletic accomplishments specifically but to any personal endeavor. In the Olympic Torch Relay any person could theoretically be chosen to participate – I also love the image of the runner surrounded by supporters of many varieties.

I am fascinated with the first step in realizing or maximizing personal potential which is described in The Cure for the Common Life as unpacking your bags. It is the idea that each individual is uniquely qualified to do specific kinds of things – as opposed to the popular but perhaps misleading attitude that “you can be anything you want to be.” In an ideal world a person would not be excluded from being whatever they might want to be but even in that ideal world, just because someone can be something does not mean they are really suited to that something.

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Selling Yourself

I’m probably a decade late in actually reading the Cluetrain Manifesto for all I had heard about it for most of that decade that I have been not reading it. In the process I certainly picked up on the message that markets and business are driven by conversation and that those institutions who strive to manage or manipulate the conversation would find themselves on the losing end of the internet revolution.

In some ways I’m glad that I read it 13 years after it was written because I have the opportunity to look at how things have changed over the last 13 years in the way of internet, business, and technology and compare that to what Cluetrain was saying about the changes being wrought by the spread of the internet. The first impression I had was that the increasing levels of communication discussed by Cluetrain have continued to grow and show no signs of decreasing. On the other hand, the prediction that organizations would have to open up their communication to outsiders or be left behind has yet to take hold. Certainly many organizations are getting better at opening up channels and communicating in a more human way but there is still no lack of examples of the Fort Business mindset.

The real idea that I took away from the book was that in the age of hyper-communication all aspects of business are at least partly a matter of selling yourself by building relationships. This is true for products as well as individuals.

When it comes to products we have moved into an age where traditional advertising is less and less trusted in comparison to personal opinion – especially when it is the opinions of people known to the person making the choice in question. I think it’s always been true that the opinions and experience of acquaintances tend to have more weight in influencing a person’s purchasing decisions than professional advertising. The difference today is that personal opinions are so much easier to share and find than they used to be.

As for people, the adage that it’s who you know, not what you know that counts holds true. If you are looking for a job either as an employee or a contractor you have to do more than list your skills, you increasingly need to demonstrate that you have the personality to positively represent those you would work for or with. With the increasingly open lines of communication everyone associated with an organization is part of the public relations team to one degree or another.

My conclusion is that to get ahead professionally it is necessary to get better at communicating with others consistently and across more channels both so that I can be better practiced at communicating my ideas and also so that I will be more well known by others so that they can be comfortable working with me when I can help them or when they can help me.

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Adventures at Grandma’s

Enoch wanted to go for a ride tonight so we decided to go down to Grandma Colette’s house to visit and harvest some things from our garden. While we were there Enoch picked up something white from the ground and started to put it in his mouth. Grandma noticed him pick it up and decided that perhaps he should not put the object in his mouth so she went to get it from him. As she grabbed it she found egg yolk running down her fingers. Apparently the object he had picked up was some kind of bird’s egg – big surprise for all of us.

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Welcome Ezra

I have to admit that this was published well after the fact so I have no pictures handy to add and I am going to dispense with the statistics for now. Despite the sparseness of this post I did want it recorded that we welcomed our fourth son to our family today and everything went perfectly (especially perfect in that Laura no longer had an insatiable itch thanks to the cholestasis brought on by the pregnancy).

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Working to My Strengths

After years of learning about myself in various jobs I began to have a greater understanding of what kinds of work really interested me. Following the advise and conclusions I reached from reading Paul Graham’s “How to Do What You Love” I began to seek ways to focus more on doing what I was good at in my work than those things that were mundane or tedious for me.

Interestingly the first real breakthrough for me came when I gave myself permission to dislike my job. Not that I was actively trying to dislike my job but that I relinquished the burden that came with the assumption that I must like my work. Related to that, I stopped worrying about how others might perceive my efforts at work. I abandoned the pretense that I must stay at work longer to make sure I got the minimum number of expected hours at times when I could not do anything effective with the time. Previously I stayed longer so that nobody could question my effort as a way to compensate for the fact that I had not been connecting with the current work and thus was not able to use the time effectively.

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Conference Traditions

This morning as I went to the temple I began to wonder if I was in the middle of a common conference tradition of going to the temple to mentally prepare for General Conference (or to make up for the fact that a weekly Saturday trip would not be possible with the temple closed on conference weekend). It was busier than I have seen it before with almost as many people waiting to perform ordinances as performing them. It was so busy that the man who normally keeps everything in order flawlessly was hard-pressed to keep everything straight with so many people coming, waiting, and going.

As I thought about it throughout the day I considered some other conference traditions that we are trying to establish in our family. We have developed a tradition of having some fun treats in stock for the weekend so that the kids can be more self-maintaining and so that they can look forward to the conference weekend. We also have a tradition of going out to dinner as a family the night before conference as a fun way to start a long weekend. I am also trying to establish a tradition of taking Friday (or most of Friday) off of work so that I can do any tasks that would normally be saved for the weekend in order to allow myself to focus on the conference rather than dividing my attention with other tasks.

All in all, I think we have some good traditions to work on so that conference weekends are getting to be perhaps our third biggest holiday of the year at our house.

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life technology

Free Google+ Invites (no strings attached)

When Google+ started there were a lot more people wanting to get in than there were openings—it reminded me a lot of the launch of Gmail in that way. One big difference for me was that I got an account less than 24 hours after the launch where I had to wait weeks for Gmail (thus preventing me from getting simply my name as an email address which was one of the major reasons why I wanted an invite). With Google+ I was in early enough that there was no link to invite people most of the time.

Once things settled down I thought it was interesting that unlike Gmail invites in the early days there was no number indicating how many invites I could offer. I don’t know when that changed (I don’t look at the invite link generally) but I just noticed today that I have 150 invites available (I only have 96 in Gmail—as if they had any purpose anymore).

When I saw that I thought I should try to find people who wanted invites but in trying to find requests all I found were a bunch of articles talking about the current status of invites and a few posts of people offering invites. I noticed that they generally asked for something in return (“like me on Facebook” or “follow me on twitter” for example).

I decided to make my own offer: let me know that you want an invite and I’ll send you one at the email address of your choice. I don’t care how you let me know but leaving a comment is probably the simplest way. Anyway you choose, I’ll give them out on a first come, first served basis.


UPDATE: I’m not entirely sure how simple this will be but here is a direct link to use one of my invites. If anyone tries that link I would appreciate at least one person leaving a comment to tell me how well it worked.

UPDATE 2: Lots of people used my direct link without making comments as evidenced by the fact that I have no more invites and nowhere near 150 comments here. If anyone still wants an invite you can let me know and I will send invites as they become available.

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Growing Children

Last night Savannah asked me what time I went out weeding in the mornings. I told her 6:00 and apparently she set her alarm for 6:30 this morning so she could join me. When she came out I was still finishing scriptures but then we went out together and I taught her the tips to pulling weeds among plants you would like to keep. So not only was I pulling weeds this morning, I was growing workers.

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When I got inside I discovered that not only had I been training up a new worker I also had an audience while we were out there:

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From the way Alyssa talked after we came in I have the feeling that I may soon have two kids out working beside me on some mornings.

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Best Car Accident Ever


photo credit: mfhiatt

Last month as I was leaving the South Davis Recreation Center I got bumped by a young driver as I was exiting the parking lot. Normally that is not the kind of thing I would write about but I wanted to thank the insurance company of that young driver for taking care of me so well.

I filed the claim with Travelers Insurance the morning of the accident and from that first phone call to the time the repairs were complete they totally took care of me.

They sent the check promptly and as soon as I made the arrangements for the actual repairs they had a rental car reserved for me within two hours. The last pleasant surprise came when I returned the rental car to Enterprise even the agent there was impressed that they had settled the bill before I even returned the car.

I only hope that my insurance company gives this kind of service when someone has a claim there.